This patio is going to destroy me. I was positive I’d be sitting out by the fire pit tonight, sipping a bourbon. But it took me about four hours longer than expected to pour and activate the polymeric sand, only to find that 25% of the joints I filled were empty by the time I was done. Apparently this broom is not an ideal tool for this job. I have a secret: This broom is not an ideal tool for ANY job. I plan to throw it into an active volcano the first chance I get. I have torn up both thumbs trying to sweep with it. But… next weekend has to be the end. I only have 25% of the joints to refill, the edging to backfill, and the furniture to move. I bought my “you finally finished this insane project” gift for myself and it arrived, but now I have to wait another week to use them. What are they? You’ll see.
Tag: patio
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September 5
While I was getting ready to work on the patio, I happened to spot the old pot where my mom’s peace lily had been. After I tried to salvage what was left of the plant, I stashed it in a corner under a chair. Apparently that’s exactly what it needed, because I found a very healthy-looking peace lily hiding in the corner. What a surprise! I think it needs to live on the patio when it’s finished. Which should be soon!
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August 30
Got a lot done on the patio. I’m very nearly finished. I think two more weekends and it’ll be ready for decorating. I’m immensely proud of it. Spent the rest of the day doing the usual Sunday chores. Sundays are so exhausting.
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August 29
Managed to get up early and do some work on the patio before taking Robin to tumbling. Went to Home Depot with Christina to pick up a new pot for her cactus, which may or may not survive its emergency surgery. I spent the rest of the day designing new beer labels for the work version of the beer game since I am headed down there next month. I find this stuff far too entertaining.
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August 16
I finished fixing that first section of the patio, and it looks really good. I’m so happy with it. I put up the edging, but it’s not tall enough, so I had to order more. What would this patio project be if I didn’t have to buy twice as much of everything than I originally planned? It looks so much better now that it’s (pretty much) straight and level. I still don’t love the plain pavers, but it’ll be ok. I can really start to smell the end now. I’ve only got half left to finish, and now that I know what I’m doing, I think we’re talking about another 3-4 weekends and then it’ll be done. It might be faster, but Christina wants to go to the beach next weekend and Robin wants to get together with her friend. There’s this life thing that has to happen. Still… the end is in sight. I’m starting to get excited.
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August 8
I got a lot done on the patio today, but the biggest thing I revealed is that everything I did on the first day is a mess. It’s crooked, it’s not level… I will have to spend another day fixing that, but at least all the newer work is good. I learned that this part is about precision, not speed. It took me forever to get this section level, and then it was too low, so I had to do it all over again. I ended up finishing a mere ten minutes before I had to take Robin to tumbling. I had to take a sink bath and scramble to change, but we made it and I was mostly presentable. I’m about halfway done and getting excited because the end is in sight. Even though we won’t have all the furniture and decor, I’m excited to see how it looks and to use it for the first time. I’m very proud of it. So much work. But look what I am doing!
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August 2
I slowed down a lot today and really worked on keeping everything level. I tried to fix the problem spots, but they are still not level, so I’ll have to try again next weekend. They’re definitely better, at least. I need to get that one edge set because the rain washed out the sand and now it’s dipping again. I wish I could have gone longer, but Christina had dance and of course it rained. At least the new part held up in the rain – no pooling there. It’s looking pretty good.
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August 1
It feels so good to finally have some pavers down! I’m really excited to be so close to being done. There are some spots I need to fix that aren’t level, like the edge where I didn’t think I needed gravel. Oops. Looks like my gravel days aren’t behind me. There’s a big surprise. Luckily I have some left over.
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July 28
I FINALLY finished building the foundation for the patio today. After more than three months, it feels overwhelmingly awesome to finally have this done. I have a lot of gravel left over, but that is still better than not having enough. I got it up to the height I needed and it looks pretty good. I’m very, very proud of it. I can’t wait to see some pavers down, maybe this weekend. We are coming down the home stretch!
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July 26
I realized about a third of the way in today that I still don’t have enough gravel to finish the patio foundation. I just about lost the will to continue. Then I thought I’d just continue until it was done no matter what it took. In the end I ordered another 85 bags of gravel, which are coming tomorrow. I think I only need 50, but after this purchase, the patio is just going to be at whatever height it is. I’d rather have 30 extra bags of gravel than not enough. I’m so over this! Went out to dinner with Lauren and Monica at a nice Italian restaurant in St. Augustine. That was nice.
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July 5
I was so defeated today. I woke up at 6am to start an epic day that I thought would end with me ready to start putting down pavers next week. Instead I used all but 2 of our bags of gravel only to find that I need to lay down another lift. That means I have to purchase, move, lay, level, and compact another four tons of gravel. I think if I had known just how much this project was going to cost in time, effort, and money, I might not have done it. The thought of moving another four tons of gravel feels depressing. But… hopefully that is the true end of it and then I’ll be really ready to start seeing the fruits of my labor. I really can’t wait to see this thing done.
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July 4
Today was the big day. I finally rented the compactor for the patio. It is definitely heavy. I was moderately successful with it. I got much less done today than I wanted. Time just wasn’t on my side. I plan to go full throttle tomorrow and get all the rest of the compacting done. It will be a feat because I will most likely need to buy more gravel, and I will likely need to do it in several trips so it doesn’t destroy my car. That all takes time. I am going to give it everything I have. I don’t want to rent the compactor again. And I don’t want Billy to come home from work and ask me why I stopped working like he did today. That ruined my whole day.
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June 6
I laid the first layer of gravel for the patio. It may not be thick enough and it’s definitely not level, but I put down a pallet’s worth, so it’s not nothing. I also tried to level out all the dirt piles in the big depression in our yard. I think I did about a B job on it. It’s a little nuts that all that patio dirt still doesn’t make that area flat. But… it’s better, so yay. Two birds with one stone and all that. It’s starting to look like something.
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May 31
Phase 2 of the patio project is done. Next weekend I’ll spread my first layer of gravel and then I’ll be ready to start compacting. Once that’s done, I start laying pavers and the whole thing will start looking real. I think at this point I’m looking at Labor Day to be totally finished, decorating and all. That’s kind of perfect timing. I’m pretty proud of what I’ve already accomplished. I’ve come further than I thought I could and I’m still enjoying it. Other than this, Robin got her hair cut, we went food shopping, and I did laundry. I don’t really want to go back to work tomorrow, but so it goes.
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May 9
I thought I was going to finish digging today, but I didn’t anticipate all the roots I was going to have to deal with. Or the humidity. My clothes were drenched when I came inside. I only have a little left to do, but I promised Christina we’d go paddling tomorrow, so it’ll have to wait. The footprint I dug is making it look real. Assuming I do it right, I think it’ll be beautiful when it’s done. It rained a little today, which is nice. Florida needs rain. Otherwise it was a slow day. We went food shopping – less than an hour from the time I got off the couch to the time I sat back down. Made fish sticks for dinner. Watching the Yankees game and trying not to get too mad at them for giving up the lead. I guess we’re all human.
